millwrightdude:
I have the same experience as Roy Jackson and N80: the FEL's on a Kubota B2400 and a Kubota L4330 both leak down very slowly and have done so since new. On the other hand, my old 1981 Caterpillar will stay up for days.
The B2400 has a Husco monoblock valve and the L4330 has a valve with no name (I suspect Kubota just doesn't want me to know who made it so I can't get parts from a third party). It is certainly possible to seal virtually completely against hydraulic fluid, even at high pressure: consider the gland seals around the rod in a hydraulic cylinder. But those seals have significant "stickiness" that would make a hand operated valve more difficult to operate. And those seals would be more expensive to install because of the machining required deep in the bore. Given their relatively cheap cost, the valves on our FELs almost certainly rely on the fit of the spool lands in the bores to seal against leakage rather than packing or other "soft" seals.
And, because of manufacturing tolerances, most spools are "hand fitted" to the bores. That is, a valve body is matched up to spools that result in a fit within the manufacturer's specifications. I learned that when I tried to buy a replacement spool for a Prince directional control valve, and the manufacturer explained why they do not sell spools separately.
Say, just for example, that the manufacturer determines that a radial clearance of 2 to 10 microns is acceptable. If the raise/lower spool land to bore clearance in one valve is 2 microns and in another valve it is 10 microns, both will get shipped. But the first one will leak very little (perhaps none at all if the load is light) while the second one will leak much faster.
So, I think it is just the luck of the draw whether your loader has a tight valve that leaks little or none (under light load) or a loose valve that leaks down rather quickly.
I am not particularly safety conscious, but I do let all implements down when I leave the machine because neighborhood children often "drive" the machines when I am not around.