The QH spec indicates all QHes should use Cat3 pins. The only difference between Cat 1, 2 & 3 QHes dimension wise is the width. Im sure 2 & 3 are beefier though. All my stuff is Cat 1 & I've got a few I haven't bothered putting the Cat3 bushings on. May get to it at some point.
In my experience all QHes except for JD iMatch & LandPride are the same cheap quality. I've had 2 Harbor Freight, 1 Speeco & one I forget, maybe CountyLine. All were similar quality, one required a little grinding on the hooks that were to small. All of em got a 1-2" extension on the back of the top hook. I've looked at the higher quality ones & still see the need for the top hook extension, so might as well go cheap if I'm going to fix it up off the bat.
2 ran off with my old tractor, one was welded to a SSQA plate to mount my former truck snow plow. 1 was for a friend & my 4th is on my new
L4060. May end up with a 5th on a SSQA plate again eventually, but my new plow will be a more compact mount than my previous QH SSQA mount.
My flail mower is ancient, off center (by design) & has articulating lower links, so lots of motion on the lift pins. I have yet to get Cat3 bushings on it & while the pins are noticeably beatup, they aren't any thinner or in danger of wearing out before the rest of the mower.