Jim, I don't know how big you want to go, but I switched from a RFM to a MMM about a month ago. The ONLY reason I switched was because I needed room in my garage so switching freed up a good deal of garage space.
Personally I have used a couple different rear mowers, the only rule that I think you need to remember is YOU GET WHAT YOU PAY FOR. A quality RFM is about the same price as a quality MMM. But a quality RFM will last for the life of the tractor.
My 60" RFM is currently for sale on the dealers lot for $950. It is over 10 years old! The dealer will take $800 for it. You can buy brand new 60" RFMs for about $1100. Or you can buy one that is built like a tank with spiral gears, gearbox with cooling fins, heavy duty stampings (8 or 9 gauge), floating linkage, anti-scalp rollers, ball bearing swivels on the 4 outboard wheels, etc, etc, etc. But again, expect to pay a high price for a unit like that.
However, I loved mowing with it. I found it easy to get under trees, especially smaller ones. I had no problems lining up my cutting rows (but with the MMM I find I miss spots on the corners!?!). The thing that I think with a MMM versus a RFM is that either way you switch, there will be a learning curve. Once you get used to it you will be fine with it.
As for weight, my unit was heavy enough to lift the front of the tractor off the ground without a FEL to counter balance, so I put wheel weights on the front of my tractor to prevent wheelies. . . but I didn't have any trouble jockying the RFM around on my garage (cememnt) floor, or my driveway (asphalt). I suspect it would be a bear to move around on the lawn or the gravel??? I used to take my RFM off all the time, didn't have a problem with that. But I did use Pat's Easy Change on my TC24 and there are extending lower links on the B2910.