kphil: Now that you mention it, I think that the order in which I connect things is (1) connect 3ph hydraulic pump so outrigger arms can be used to raise BH to proper level, (2) connect lower 3ph arm pins and locking mechanism, (3) front of subframe to bracket under engine and, finally (4) heavy duty toplink to tractor.
I definitely agree that you don't want to toplink supporting the BH before the subframe is firmly anchored to the tractor chassis, both at the front and back of the subframe.
Hope this helps.