As noted, breakout force is what you need for prying, and for lots of it you would be better off with a loader/backhoe than a farm type loader. The Kubota L48 and Deere 110 would be in that category, along with lots of larger machines that are in a whole new price category.
As for hp needs, the FEL and other hydraulic items care about pressure and gallons per minute flow rates. Most farm tractors have very similar system pressures - in the range of 2500 to 2800psi (compared to modern construction equipment that may operate at 4000psi or more). However, flow varies greatly, and that's the main distinguishing point. Most compacts will have 10gpm or less; utilities usually in the 10-15gpm, with larger ones pushing close to 20; and large farm tractors maybe 30gpm. Compare this to skidsteers which usually have at least 20gpm and maybe 35-40 with high flow options.
If the loader is sized for the tractor it will work well with the tractor's hydraulic output. So the FEL on a 50hp utility will work well on 10-13gpm. The difference is that you will have either less force or slower operation than you would have with more gpm - and which one you have is an engineering decision by the FEL engineer. On the Deere's you mentioned I believe they all put out about the same gpm. If you compare to a Deere 5x25, you will see that the 5225 and 5325 have 13gpm and the 5425/5525 jumps to 18gpm. On farm tractors the flow rate usually correlates to the engine hp, but this is just an engineering decision; you can choose to put more engine power into hydraulics, and that's what you see on skidsteers and the loader/backhoes I mentioned, which are in the 40-50hp range but have much more flow than 50hp ag tractors.
Quite a lot of information. What it boils down to is that if you are looking only at ag tractors, the differences are fairly small. The Deere 522 and 542 loaders have a bit more breakout force than similar offerings from Kubota, while most other makers don't advertise breakout force so you can't easily compare. The loader/backhoes have significantly more breakout force. One anomaly is my Deere 5105/522 FEL combo, which due to an engineering decision has more breakout force than usual for its class, something over 4000lbs. I'm not sure if this is of much practical importance. I do remember reading another thread where an M7040 owner was complaining that his LA1153 FEL didn't have nearly as much breakout force as the loader on his Kubota L48, meaning that he couldn't pry out pavement with it nearly as well. But again, the ag loaders aren't really designed for that use.
With your other posts that I've read, I think if you could afford it you would be well served with one tractor for field work - maybe a 2wd cab tractor over 50hp - and a separate loader/backhoe for the extensive renovations you have ahead.