We use metric too (i'm from Holland)
Using a disk harrow is a totally different load than a backhoe: When doing serious digging, like pulling treestumps or rocks, your backhoe is likely to go pull the MTZ off the ground with all its four wheels, tipping over the outriggers instead of over the rear axle. It puts quite some strain on the mounting points on the back of the tractor, thats why heavier backhoes are attached with a subframe instead of the 3pt lift. The simple weight of the backhoe itself, really is nothing compared to the forces that come to it when you use full force of the backhoe. (At least, if you design such a beefy backhoe mainframe, i assume the backhoe that will be attached to that, is able to pull your MTZ into the air with all four wheels..). When carrying your disk harrow in the 3pt, the rear axle is your fulcrum, when using the backhoe with outriggers, the outriggers are your fulcrum: the distance of the center of gravity of the tractor, to the outriggers, is double the distance than the distance between the center of gravity of the tractor, to the rear axle. (maybe even more, depending on your design)
===edit: i went back to the first page to see your subframe, and deleted some things about the frame because you already take the right route
Just a question: is the horizontal bar, the 230x25mm bar you mentioned ? And what size of bolts are you using ?
http://i45.tinypic.com/25phifc.jpg
I dont mean to say your construction will fail (or: the casting you bolt your construction to, will fail) but just warning you: the tractor rear axle housing is the weakest link in this construction, not the backhoe itself.
If in doubt, it might be a good idea to weld those vertical bars to the backhoe subframe so there will be absolutely no movement there: if you make sure that connection takes up a bending moment, the force on the tractor rear axle housing (where your trailer drawbar normally attaches) is only vertical shear in downward direction, and at the end of the backhoe subframe, where it connects to the front loader subframe, you only get a vertical force in upward direction. Then you lead in the forces into the tractor chassis equally.