I made the choice today and purchased a Bobcat CT335 with 8TL FEL with 66" Bob-tach bucket, 2-rear hyd. remotes, 1-front hyd. remote for grapple, turf tires/rims and industrial tires/rims for $16.5k The Kioti DK35seHST was $17k with FEL, 1-rear hyd. remote and no front hyd. remote and only turf tires.
The comment about moving up to a 44hp machine was well placed but for my application the tractor will mostly be a big lawn mower. Getting both turf and industrial tires and wheels was the clincher. I will probably never use the second rear hyd. remote but what the heck. Grapple is something I already have daydreams about. The Bobcat may not be around in X years, but the machine is really a Kioti, so parts are available within 5 miles. having previously purchased a Bobcat skid steer (T300) the (much larger Kioti) Bobcat dealer was willing to back up the tractor with a larger service department with better trained technicians, and some cool trashy stuff like beverage mugs.
Probably the most odd thing is that my wife said the Bobcat looked more "cute" than the others. I honestly do not know the criteria for "cute" in tractors but I guess we have one.
Thanks to all responders at TBN, you all contributed greatly.