The tractor weight is important to getting certain jobs done such as loader work. I like to look at what the tractor is used for primarily to find the best way to
ballast as well as where to put the weight so buying a tractor with to much weight that is not removeable can be an issue.
Look at what you will be using the tractor for the most and where you will be putting the most hours on for your options as well.
Many look at the loader work as a large task but after the heavy work is done, what gets the most hours? To have a heavy or well weighted tractor out mowing can be a disadvantage to the owner from the aspect of fuel useage alone! Other things that enter in would be soil compaction and ride.
Now that I've got a keyboard instead of a phone;
Weight is the single biggest factor of a tractor. Without weight, you can have a million HP trying to pick up a yard of gravel, but if your wheels are just spinning it does you no good whatsoever.
You have to know the purposes of your tractor. I know that my 85HP utility w/ R1's is not going on turf and I don't plan on mowing with it. The extra weight of it gives much more power to the wheels.
When comparing a smoother ride, think of what gives you a smoother ride, a 2500 loaded or unloaded. When you put the weight in the back you make a smoother ride because the shocks are loaded like they were designed to be. A car has a lot weaker of a suspension, and is smoother, but a tractor has no suspension, and the added weight makes it stick to the ground and give a smoother ride.
As MtnView mentioned, fuel concerns are not an issue unless your using your tractor for 1000+ hours per year. I don't know anyone on TBN who does that, I would say that most of us are in the 100/year range, and you wouldn't see much difference in a weight tractor and a non-weighted, assuming everything else is the same.
I know they can be better designed, but for the most part, a heavier built tractor is built stronger than a lighter. Same thing with getting a 3/16" piece of steel and a 1/2" piece of steel. The 1/2" is way stronger, but also heavier.
I don't see the allure to the lighter tractors. You can weight them down, but when your just putting that weight right onto the tractor, you really want the weight to be built into making a stronger tractor in the frame instead of dangling off a weaker frame.
Just my $.02