Welcome!
I admire your attitude and forward thinking and willingness to admit what you know and need to know.
sorry for the loss of your father. You say "we" and I'm assuming this means your mother, thus not really an extra strong back to help out with things. You'll be doing much by yourself.
Glad you are here...and feel free to ask all questions...there will be various answers, some even conflicting. This is good, points out that different people have different experiences, skills and situations. You will need to figure out how to apply all these various recommendations and ideas to your situation. Getting advice from soil conservation people, local neighbors, etc who know/understand your resources and capacities will be invaluable. There are several lady farmers who are active on TBN....they may well have some advice for you as well...you might even send them a Private Message (pm) with particular questions.
I HIGHLY RECOMMEND that you spend lots of time reading thru TBN threads.... use the search engine to find threads of interest .....use words like goats, garden, hay, etc.... none of the problems you face are unique to you, although you may find your own special ways of dealing with them. You surely can read about how others have addressed the issues and their successes and failures, etc....
My thoughts, based on the comments you have made so far...
86 acres are going to be very hard to turn a profit on ...you'll have to have a sharp pencil, clever marketing and work dawn to past dark
All the studies I've seen say that owning hay equipment for small acreage is uneconomical...strongly consider hiring the cutting/baling
hope you have experience with goats...they are everywhere, jump up on everything, will go thru all but the tightest of fences
goats will not go well with gardens unless WELL fenced out.
These fences need to be in place ALREADY...building fence, particularly for goats, is EXTREMELY expensive and labor intensive, time consuming.
I hope you have sheds where you can keep trailers and equipment, weather can mess stuff up and cost you unproductive maintenance effort
Several trailers will prove very handy...one for each kind of purpose...fencing, putting out feed, etc...unloading/loading trailers takes lots of time
you will need some sort of bulk fuel tank for your tractor fuel. Preferably a gravity/electric pump feed...lifting 5 gallons gets OLD.
If you can confine/control your goats, you may find they do the work of a brush hog...they will certainly eat brush and forbs to the ground.
I agree goats are preferred over cattle...you can handle a goat by hand, not so for a cow. Burn the horn buds of kids at an early age.
The more diversity you have, the less susceptible you are to a single failure point BUT the more you will need to do/know.
You will need vet supplies for the goats. I do not recommend milking the goats, been there, hard work.
You hopefully can put the goats in a shed at night...predators such as coyotes, wild cats will take a terrible toll otherwise.
A herding dog, such as a border collie if you can learn to train/use the dog, is an IMMENSE help.
Use food to herd your goats...to get them to come into a pen...lead them rather than push them...works better.
You will need a FULL set of tools, hopefully they are already there...organize what you have and make it your own, you'll use them often,.
The tractor should have a FEL, loaded tires, quick attach on FEL, bucket with chain hooks and tooth bar, a PATS or quick attach for 3ph
Frankly, I'd get the largest hydrostatic tractor I could. This is about 59 hp for a Kubota. 4 wheel drive. I have 200+ acres and a 50 hp tractor which has served me well and I've plowed fields of 20-30 acres with it...takes time, but it'll work if you do.
An HST tractor can be driven very precisely and for that reason, IMHO, is safer than other transmissions.
I like Kubota tractors, but then everybody likes the brand they already have.
I recommend some sort of 4 wheeler/motorcycle to move over the property, can't take tractor everywhere.
Learn how to use hydraulics and diesel to replace your muscles whenever you can.
Many people find FEL forks to be extremely handy for lifting, carrying, placing things. Maybe get a bunch of wood pallets.
If you can share equipment/labor with a neighbor, barter stuff, that will go a long way, experiment with equipment to know what you NEED.
Little things make a huge difference sometimes..gloves, a 3 lb hammer, metal pry bar, wide brim hat, rubber boots, etc...
I hope you have shotgun and know how to use it...handy for varmints, rodents, reptiles
carry a cell phone with you ALWAYS...a safety tool in case you get hurt/need help.
Wishing you all the best!!:thumbsup: