Ultra,
From what I can make out of your pictures the connection between the black 90 degree male fitting and the female hose end is a JIC 45 degree swivel flare connection. As such you should not have to exert excessive tighten force to make a leak proof connection. Can you determine exactly where the fluid is leaking from? If it is coming from the connection then take the hose off and inspect the flare end of the male fitting and the female fitting for dirt or damage. Sometimes these connections can be reseated by smoothing the male flair with a piece of emery cloth but be careful not to remove too much material or you will ruin the fitting. Also try twisting the hose back and forth (rotating it) as you tighten the swivel nut to try help seating it.
If the leak is from the hose end side you could replace the hose which I don't think would be too expensive. If the problem is on the cylinder side you will be in for more expense or work since the fitting appears welded to the cylinder. You will need to find the exact point of the leak before you take the cylinder off if you want to attempt repairs. Or, perhaps a hydraulic shop can cap the cylinder and bench test it for leaks. If the fitting is cracked perhaps it could be repaired by silver soldering, but it would require someone with good skills. The trick would be to get a good flow of solder or braze into the damaged area without overheating and damaging the cylinder itself. I'm sure that anyone that would undertake such a repair for you would stress that there is no guarantee, but it would be worth a try if your only alternative was purchasing a new cylinder.
If the problem is a damaged male flair end on the 90 degree fitting you might want to research a flair fitting repair ring. I saw those in hydraulic catalogs many years ago. They appeared to be thin soft metal rings shaped to fit between the male flair and the female swivel nut to seal the connection. I have no idea how well they work or where to find them but it might be worth checking with some hydraulic repair shops. In any event brute force tightening the connections will not fix a damaged fitting and could actually make your problem worse.
Good luck. It sounds like you are due for some.
JN