Murph, any headache problems seem to mostly be eliminated by ibuprofen. In the morning, I do have the "sitting on head" syndrome until I get up and move around. They are treating me the reduced WBC count, but the last test showed me within the normal range, though my RBC count was a little on the low side. I have not had a blood test since the chemo began. I'll have that when I go back at the end of October. I don't know for sure, but I'd bet my symptoms are related to zoledronic acid. My information sheet says that it's effects are magnified with the first dose and then decrease with future doses.
You are absolutely right about staying away from the general public and using intensified hygiene. The only time I hug my grandson is after he takes a shower and changes to clean clothes. Kids just bring too much home with them from school to take a chance.