...There are people who thrive in a recession and those who do not.
Very true. Look at this:
When we got married back in 1985 we had to borrow money to buy a house. We paid 3 points to get the interest rate down to 12.5%
. But we bought a very small used home that only cost 20G.
And we paid it off in 5 years....
We both made about $7.00 bucks an hour back then, which was about double the minimum wage.
$7.00 an hour in 1985 was = to about $14.00 an hour in 2007, which is still about double the minimum wage.
That 1985 20G house (which we sold in 1995) is now worth about $45,000. About the same when comparing 1985 to 2007 value.
My point is, while the numbers may get larger, in actual worth, they have remained pretty constant over the last 23 years that we have been married. And there have been several recessions, setbacks AND advances during that time.
I believe the reasons my wife and I have not felt many ill affects from the economy over the long haul are that we are conservative and do not live up to our means. We live below our means and pay as we go. By living below our means, we have gained. We have two great children, a small warm house (that creaks when you walk through it), a couple decent used cars, the kids go to great private schools, money for retirement, etc...
The future is always uncertain, but it is uncertain for all of us. Come up with a plan to get out of debt and stick with it over the long haul.