Looks to be overtightened already from pic 1. Should likely be a crush washer type on what looks like a banjo type fitting to me, from what I can see in the pic. Is the fitting a bolt through with a tube attached to it, with hydraulic fluid inside the tube? If so, I'd check with your selling dealer and get them to send you the correct washer for that fitting.
Look carefully at the washer that is on the outside of the fitting where the bolt head snugs up to it. That is what is needed where the now crushed O-ring is located. The dealer mechanic might have lost the washer that came with the loader and installed the O-ring to get the unit out the door. You could print out that pic, or send it to him so he knows what needs to be used and gets you the right one. They should have those washers in stock, but might have run out when your loader was being installed.
Caution: if you go to replace the washer make sure your bucket is completely at rest on the ground, tractor off, and move the joystick to all positions to relieve hydraulic pressure first. Hydraulic fluid under pressure can penetrate skin and cause need for amputation in worse case scenario.
Post back end result.