I cannot tell you if you need a BX1800 or not, but what I can tell you is that I have one and love it!!! I ended up purchasing a BX1800 w/grass catcher, loader, 60"mmm, and
ballast box in March. I have 50 hours on it now and cannot say enough good things about it. I too didn't start out looking for a FEL. I actually started pricing looking for a hydraulic angling front blade. EVERY Kubota dealer I talked to either questioned (being nice) or flat out told me I would be much better off with a FEL for the small cost difference.
I intended to use the blade for snow removal and light grading work when needed as that was what I had been used to all my life (fathers JD112, 318, 425, my cub 147, 1811 of course most notl hydraulic blades).
Anyhow, I am here to tell you that the FEL has been very welcomed and used probably equal hours to my mower for everything from backfilling drainage ditch, moving gravel for drive, to moving a 1/2 keg at my pig roast the weekend before last (the sun started to hit it and we needed to move it with barrel/ice and CO2 system, so it was easier than lifting ourselves).
I haven't used to move snow yet (well I did get one pass a few days after I recieved it in April but that doesn't really count), but I expect for my short drive it will do the job fine.
Also relative, I did clean up some Oak Leaves this Spring that were left over from last fall using the grass catcher. I can say the unit did a wonderful job, but it does fill up rather fast. Still beats my old way of using leaf blower to blow into pile onto a tarp and then draggin across back lawn to garden.
You can see pictures of results in one of my first posts about half way down regarding photos for "what I was up against".
http://www.tractorbynet.com/forums/showflat.php?Cat=&Board=owning&Number=255265&page=&view=&sb=5&o=&fpart=1&vc=1
This thing is great. I opted not to go with the 2200 because the $1,000 I saved. With my two 3/4 acre properties and limited need for the extra horsepower both the dealer and I determined that it wasn't that necessary(of course the CFO's opinion on the matter and the fact we were already $3,000 over our $10,000 budget played heavily into it as well).
I would very much recommend getting everything you want NOW with the initial purchase and low financing rates. It is a lot more difficult in a year or two to come up with $1000-3000 depending on "what attachement" on top of the payment, than it is to add a few dollars to the payment now. I know cuz my CFO won't let me even spring for a $289 tooth bar!!!! so I am looking into building my own.
Well I think my wind is finally dying down and the CFO just came home and it giving me a hard time about being on "tractor ****" as she refers to it....
Good luck on your decision and press hard for the extra toys....I mean tools. By the way it doesn't hurt to talk about the things you can do for her (ie. mulch moving, garden plot, whatever it is that peaks her interest, just don't tell her she can do it or you lose the seat time).