Hi George,
I'll tell you what route I took from the information I researched.
I purchased a B2910 with Kubota LA402 loader, R4's, folding ROPS, Woods 7500 backhoe with pump and subframe, and a Woods 1160 posthole digger.
I purchased it from my local dealer and used quotes from dealers who sell via the internet to help negotiate a fair price. (My local dealer was not the lowest price, and I did have to pay sales tax on top of the purchase price, but my dealer was very helpful and I felt comfortable working with him. To me, that was important and worth the slight price differential.)
My dealer, as you can tell, also sells Woods equipment and strongly recommended the Woods hoe w/subframe over the Kubota hoe. (As some point out, his mark-up might be higher on the Woods equipment and that's why he pushes it.) He strongly recommended the subframe mount over 3 pt. mounts. The Kubota is a 3 pt. mount, I believe, and I've read enough posts to feel a bit "safer" (for me AND my tractor) using a subframe mount hoe. My advice on this: If you're putting on a Kubota hoe, use whatever Kubota recommends. If another manufacturer, go with the subframe mount.
On the other hand, if you'll be using a midmount mower (I do not) the backhoe subframe mount will, I believe, interfere with the midmount mower. This will make mower/backhoe changeover a much more difficult task. My recommendation in this case is to go with the Kubota backhoe.
An interesting point is that my B2910 owners manual (page 13) states that a subframe is necessary!
Another recommendation is that a separate rear PTO hydraulic pump helps to keep the backhoe hydraulic fluid separate from the rest of the tractors hydro fluid and might therefore minimize the possibility of contaminating the tractor hydro fluid when mounting the hoe.
One last thing. When I was pricing mine, I started looking at the B7500 as well. By the time I was done adding on accessories (which really are not that much more expensive for the larger B series units than the smaller), I felt the B2910 was a much better value. When I took into account that I planned on owning this tractor for the rest of my life (which will hopefully be at least 30 more years /w3tcompact/icons/smile.gif) the extra few thousand $$$ seemed like a small price to pay for the extra power, size and convenience of the B2910 over the smaller B series. (I didn't need the extra hp, but it's nice to have, and the tractor doesn't have to work as hard when I ask it to dig in this rock laden clay soil I live on.)
Well, that's my $0.02 worth. Hope it helps. I think most of us have been where you are and have agonized over these decisions. Good Luck in your decision.
~Rick