Manonthehill, have you tried using low range? Have you tried using your toe to lift up on the forward pedal for reverse? I would not consider the abrut reverse a positive trait, but on a scale of 1-10, it only bothers me about a 1. To you it sounds like a 10. I have a 14 year old son mowing our yard with mine and I have no fears. I have actually backed up hard with mine on dry pavement, and I can't get mine to do a wheelie. In your video you have a rear bagger on and you are on a slight hill. I would say between the weight on the back and the hill is causing the front wheels to come up. Add a couple of weights to the front. With or without the abrut reverse, I would say your tractor is a little tail heavy. Like someone else has said, I wouldn't consider a problem until I read about it on this website.
Some others have been a little harsh on you, and I don't want to sound that way also. There are alot of Kubota fans on this board, so you won't win alot of freinds by trashing their favorite tractor make. I also have bought things and been upset when they aren't what I thought they would be, so I understand where you are coming from. If it really bothers you that much, I would try to work out a trade for a BX2360 where the problem has been fixed. I agree with you that Kubota knows that it is a problem, but as others have stated, no matter what they do, someone will always find something they don't like.