I'm a backhoe owner wannabe also, and here's some tidbits I've picked up.
Woods 7500 and Kub 4690 are comparable. The 4690 is a "3pt" attached unit, meaning it uses the lower 3pt attachment points (which are removed when using hoe), plus the toplink. It is a "pto pump" unit, meaning it has its own self-contained hydraulics that run from the pto.
On the L10 series tractors, Kubota strongly recommends adding a "reinforced toplink bracket" to prevent potential damage to the transmission housing with 3pt backhoes. It's included in the 4690 "kit" from Kubota and can be bought extra to use with other backhoes like the Woods 7500.
Speaking of which, Woods has a good reputation for backhoes and the 7500 is a very popular product. You have more options for how you configure the Woods hoe than the Kubota model. You can choose between a pto pump or run it from the tractor hydraulics. You can set it up as a 3pt attached unit or get a customized subframe matched to your 3410.
Most everyone who has a BH favors the added strength of a subframe-style. The only potential drawbacks may be some ground clearance issues with a subframe (probably not a problem on a 3410) and possible conflict between the subframe and a mid-mount mower.
Keep in mind that I am so far all talk and no action in my backhoe shopping, so my 2 cents is barely worth that much. But I think either unit should work fine for light-medium use.
By the way, I have about 800' for my utility trench, plus about 5 years worth of stumps and deadfall trees to clear up, plus a basement to excavate, plus etc., etc. with my future BH. Renting would cost more, plus less convenient for a weekend warrior like me. Good luck with your projects!