Well got it figured out. When you lift the loader the arms go down when you lower the loader the arms come up. So I have to put brackets on the stop the loader from dropping so I can lift the arms.
Selector valve helps. I have the original MF one on my 59 MF-65. You can only use the 3 pt or the loader. You also need the the draft lever in the cup position to have pressure to the selector valve(s).