Bob, You have not laid the proper ground work!!!
First the wife should be informed that building a house requires equipment and therefore storage for such equipment .. Pick a spot for the house and stake it out so she can visualize.
Then find the right spot for the barn/shop/shed and build it first, then by the time its finished you can get the tractor in it and store building materials so you can help in building the house and use the tractor for final grading , digging the pond ,grading for HER greenhouse /forums/images/graemlins/wink.gifetc. OH YEAH Buddy thats the Ticket!!! Get the picture /forums/images/graemlins/grin.gif