You want to get a spring with the same stiffness so it deflects the same amount as the other springs at a given load.
This will be described as "spring rate" in pounds per inch of travel.
Spring rate is determined by type of steel used for the wire, wire shape (round, square, etc.), wire cross section, number of coils, outside diameter of coils.
You also want to match the free (unloaded) length, as you will be adjusting the clutch by counting turns of the nut.
Very hard to know you are getting a good match unless you can find a part with all the same measurements.
Did you try King Kutter for an exact match? I've had very good luck with their parts and delivery service.
CBW1999 is right about getting a full set if you can't get an exact match to the existing one.
If you have a Eurocardan, you could try Agri Supply:
http://www.agrisupply.com/Tension-Spring-Fd-Eurocardan/p/32498/&sid=&eid=/