If your valve leaks fluid, it could be a number of things.
The spool could just be worn out, and most spools can not be replaced.
If the spool has o-rings, they can be replaced. However, they only seal the bypass fluid from the spools.
The spool that looses pressure when pushed fwd, is probably a float spool and is supposed float the bucket.
Where is fluid pouring out, a fitting, a hose, a crack in the valve block, a check valve, a relief valve.
Your spool spring centering assembly might need some work.