You don't want to burn or bury your house, that will turn your land into a dump which someday will cost much more than $10K to clean up. That said, disposal is going to be your biggest cost.
The way the pros do it around here is to knock the house down, break it into pieces small enough to fit into a dumpster and cart the whole thing away. You have to decide whether you want to go that route, or the route of taking everything apart and sorting it and then disposing of it or reusing it depending on the material.
The pros just load the whole house into dumpsters because time is money, but you'll save a lot on the disposal if you sort the materials. In my neighboring state of Massachusetts recycling of building materials is mandated, so there is a market for used materials, but they have to be clean. Drywall is recycled, so a dumpster full of pure drywall is much cheaper to get rid of than a dumpster of unsorted debris. My local concrete recycler takes broken concrete and bricks for free, as long as it's clean. Wood can be reused or burned on site.
Demolition is dangerous work. Gravity is working against you. If you're going to disassemble and sort, I would take as much off as you safely can with the house still standing.
If you want to flatten the house, the key is that most buildings can't stand much sideways force. Some guys took down a two-story house across the street from me using only a Bobcat. They punched holes through the walls in one corner near the roof, and wrapped a chain around the corner post and pulled. The whole house came down right quick. If I were to do it, I think I would have two corners wrapped before I started pulling, in case I pulled a corner off and the house was still standing. I wouldn't want to go up on a ladder to attach another chain after I had ripped one corner off! And make sure the chain is long enough that there's no chance of the house falling on you.
Take lots of pictures!
