I'm going to try to make a long story short, so please bear with me...
My wife, son and nephew went to a casual dining restaurant this past weekend. My wife and I typically order a club sandwich (ham, turkey, cheese, lettuce, tomato, bacon, mayo) and split it, and we each get an order of fries. I can't stand mayo on a sandwich, while my wife likes it, so we always order the mayo "on the side".
I stressed this to our server - "blah...blah...and could you make sure that we get the mayo on the side, please?" The server assured us that he would, as he also didn't like mayo on his sandwiches (although I assume if someone orders extra mayo, he tells them he loves mayo...).
Our order comes out, and it took a while (the restaurant was not busy), and it was delivered by another server. The first thing I saw was mayo on the sandwich. My wife and I ask to have it sent back, and get the mayo on the side. Our server came by and apologized, said that he had told the kitchen specifically "mayo on the side". It ends up taking about 15 minutes for the sandwich to return, with NO mayo - not even on the side. We ask the server for the mayo on the side, and he says he'll go get it right away...and he doesn't return until it's time for the check.
The other fly in the ointment is this: This is the 3rd time in a row that this exact thing has happened at this exact restaurant (I'm a slow learner - my wife and son really like the restaurant, though). I asked the server if I could speak to the manager, and he said that the manager had just stepped out....(no, I don't believe that either - but I didn't see the manager walking around to each table as they often do, so I'll give him the benefit of the doubt).
Our server did remove the drink charges from our ticket for my wife and I (she had tea, I had Diet Mountain Dew), so he made an effort, but I thought that overall the service was poor.
Our ticket came to about $40 for the 4 of us, and I told my wife that I intended to leave $1 for a tip. She said "It's not the server's fault". Then where does the fault lie? I didn't go to the kitchen and order my food, so the server is my only contact. I think that current etiquette for a tip is between 15 and 20 percent (and I'm more on the 15 percent end of the scale), so that would be $6. We compromised and left $4.
The thing is, I'm sure that we will eat at this restaurant again, and that is my favorite item on the menu - when I get it with no mayo!!! What else can I do?
Thanks for letting me vent and I look forward to hearing how others have handled this situation.
Good luck and take care.
My wife, son and nephew went to a casual dining restaurant this past weekend. My wife and I typically order a club sandwich (ham, turkey, cheese, lettuce, tomato, bacon, mayo) and split it, and we each get an order of fries. I can't stand mayo on a sandwich, while my wife likes it, so we always order the mayo "on the side".
I stressed this to our server - "blah...blah...and could you make sure that we get the mayo on the side, please?" The server assured us that he would, as he also didn't like mayo on his sandwiches (although I assume if someone orders extra mayo, he tells them he loves mayo...).
Our order comes out, and it took a while (the restaurant was not busy), and it was delivered by another server. The first thing I saw was mayo on the sandwich. My wife and I ask to have it sent back, and get the mayo on the side. Our server came by and apologized, said that he had told the kitchen specifically "mayo on the side". It ends up taking about 15 minutes for the sandwich to return, with NO mayo - not even on the side. We ask the server for the mayo on the side, and he says he'll go get it right away...and he doesn't return until it's time for the check.
The other fly in the ointment is this: This is the 3rd time in a row that this exact thing has happened at this exact restaurant (I'm a slow learner - my wife and son really like the restaurant, though). I asked the server if I could speak to the manager, and he said that the manager had just stepped out....(no, I don't believe that either - but I didn't see the manager walking around to each table as they often do, so I'll give him the benefit of the doubt).
Our server did remove the drink charges from our ticket for my wife and I (she had tea, I had Diet Mountain Dew), so he made an effort, but I thought that overall the service was poor.
Our ticket came to about $40 for the 4 of us, and I told my wife that I intended to leave $1 for a tip. She said "It's not the server's fault". Then where does the fault lie? I didn't go to the kitchen and order my food, so the server is my only contact. I think that current etiquette for a tip is between 15 and 20 percent (and I'm more on the 15 percent end of the scale), so that would be $6. We compromised and left $4.
The thing is, I'm sure that we will eat at this restaurant again, and that is my favorite item on the menu - when I get it with no mayo!!! What else can I do?
Thanks for letting me vent and I look forward to hearing how others have handled this situation.
Good luck and take care.