I suppose if I was an invalid, I could make do with a 1/2 ac. I just can't see me living like that now. I have too many tools and machines that I'm not willing to give up just yet although I'm not married either. After moving to the country from housing where you could reach out and practically touch the next house, I've grown accustomed to the free space and quiet. Not to mention being able to do anything I want on the property (no restrictions/ordinances). I'd go crazy with nothing to do or work on.
I admire your dedication to the marriage and hope that perhaps there's a meeting point. Any chance of buying a farm over there?
We are trying to find a farm she wants fruit trees for some extra income so maybe if the price is right..
See this is the problem over the years with the X wives we never saved for retirement so I am going to have to rely on SS and over there I can live quite well.