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Suggest you expand your profile..like what part of the country you are in..helps answer questions.
Your fence and pasture situation sounds fine... how about pens and a loading chute to put stuff into a trailer.
Suggest you go to a ranch that has 30 or so mother cows and the owner messes with the animals all the time. Point is to get animals that are ALREADY very gentle and do what you want them to do.... you have neither the skill or time to train the animals, far easier to purchase them that way.
A gentle animal will almost always remain that way... a wild one is very hard to tame down.
Sugest you get a very gentle cow, bred and or with calf, to add to your herd. Keep her as your weaned animals come and go. She will keep them in line and lead them around the place properly. The value of such an animal will be obvious to you only if you try to keep a bunch of weaned calves without the cow. Alone, they will develop bad habits, as you have already seen.
Most ranchers have a cow in their herd that will do this job and they know her and love her... because of the help she gives them... you can pay a premium for such an animal and be ahead of the game. Pay the premium for disposition, not pedigree or youthfulness or beauty. Often an older cow no longer fits a rancher's program, yet he is reluctant to send her to slaughter ..... I know I reluctantly sent a couple of such cows to slaughter this year because of drought conditions.
Polled is OK... but calves are easily dehorned when a few weeks old. Yes, best to castrate bull calves, the younger, the better.
As for breed.... I certainly would not pay any extra for pure bred animals. Typically crossbred animals have more hybrid vigor and will gain weight faster. I'd personally NOT use anything with dairy breeding in it.... these are bred uniquely for milking ability...which is of no interest to you. Milk cows are docile because they are handled daily... but beware of the bulls, they often are extremely dangerous as they get older.
Select docile meat animals that are adapted to your region.... no breed is properly adapted to use in every part of the country. High mountains, desert, temperate, humid, insects, ticks... various breeds are better in some areas than others.... need to know where you are to make recommendation.
Remember, each animal is unique. There is no such thing as a particular breed that is totally gentle, every individual. It is the individual you are dealing with, not the entire breed. So, focus on the individual you purchase... time spent PRIOR to the purchase in determing its dispositon will be paid back 100 fold later... if you make the right choice.
Bottom line, get a known gentle cow, add known gentle weaned calves, steers or heifers, as desired. Make sure you have one or more pens with water.
Plan ahead, something will get hurt or sick and you will need to doctor it. Best is a squeeze chute... likely too expensive. Next best is a chute made of cattle panels which you can run the animal into and block off, front and back with pipes preventing movement to doctor it. Least desirable is a 16 foot gate you can swing to trap the animal against a solid wall and hold it for doctoring. Get a set of nose tongs and learn how to use them... amazing tool, can be used to control a 2000 lb animal that is misbehaving...but only if constrained in a chute or trapped between panels.
Enough of my preaching.. best wishes with your emerging herd... you will learn much along the way...it's fun
