I'll give the margaritas two atta-boys!
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David MossFlower you can snivel here on TBN as long as you don't stay depressed. Since you didn't ask, my advise is to spend some quality adult time with someone who appreciates you for who you are.
Dave,
Good margaritas are... GREAT! :licking: and I do make good ones...
I'm trying not to stay depressed, and I'm trying not to b!tch/whine/snivel too much on here as it is too easy to simply complain... And because y'all are such fine individuals here that you do not deserve my bellyaching...
You make a good point. I need some good quality adult time with SOMEONE who likes me "as-is". I've got some really good friends who do love and support me (as another here pointed out in an earlier post) but mostly we talk about "my situation" and while that helps, I is not the same.
Mostly I am scared. I am scared of losing my kids, my ranch, and of the unknown future. I'm scared of dating and such after this ends, and I'm scared that if we try to get back together that it will fail as well.
In the end, I'm just scared of failure & rejection and that is the key ingredients that got me here in this situation in the first place... Sigh...
Thanks for the supportive thought and the solid diagnosis.
Somehow I need to move into the uncertain future, I need to start moving on and taking care of myself in some fashion or I'll be no good to my kids or anyone else... I just wish I knew how to do it the "right" way...
I need to find a "farmgirl" near me somehow, that's probably what I need...
God Bless you sir & all of the rest of you too.
Be well,
David