CajunRider,
I suggest you visit the link provided by EddieWalker and myself for more information specific to your location. I can give you some general advice.
You will need a dozer for a pond that size. From what you describe, it sounds like you will be digging a hole and not constructing a dam. Make sure you have a source to fill the pond, whether it's groundwater, surface flow, or a well. If you plan on doing it yourself, I would still get some advice from a knowledgeable person on site, even if you have to pay a little for it.
You want probably a 3 to 1 slope, but that would depend on your soil type. One thing you want to avoid, unless you want submerged vegetation for duck food, is shallow water. I would recommend reaching 3' deep water as close to the shore as possible.
Don't make a big bowl with no habitat in it. Put some brush piles and humps in there between 4 and 8' deep at the base.
As far as stocking, the standard across the south is to stock 500 2-3" bluegill and 5 lbs of fathead minnows per acre in the spring. Many stock 300 bluegill and 200 redear instead, and that is usually what I recommend. In the fall you can add 50 4-6" bass and 100 4-6" channel catfish per acre. If you plan to feed the catfish, you can stock them the first spring, but if not I would wait until the fall.
There's a lot of other stuff to consider also, but I think this answers the questions you've already posed.