One of our kids mentioned police once to my wife and she said go ahead and call them, you can go live in a foster home or police can take care of you if you do. Never heard anymore about that. But then again, our kids were pretty well behaved and got along with each other very well. Only once did one of them backtalk my wife and a quick slap and a stern lecture stopped that forever. Never had one sneak out like that either. Our house was neighborhood gathering place for all the kids in the neighborhood and all our kids friends. Sleepovers were common since my wife would rarely let our kids sleep over with friends and never any that she hadnt met their parents and had a good feeling for them. The kids would come talk to my wife about their problems that they couldnt or wouldnt take to their parents about. Wife always had that ability to listen and tell it like it was to folks and she did the same with all the 5 kids. As far as I know they never hid anything from us when growing up. They are all in their 30's and 40's now and we get a kick out of them talking about their childhood experiences. Lots of times now when we meet some of them, at introduction to their friends, they will call my wife their other mother.
My wife was also very defensive of all the kids. Once her son corrected a teacher who was teaching Spanish and used the wrong conjugation. When he said that she was wrong, she got very defensive and argumentative. He explained to here that Spanish (not TexMex) was his first language and she was wrong so she sent him to the principal. Big mistake. When my wife got through with the principal the following day, then the teacher, it was apology time for all of them. That little 5'2" Venezuelan doesnt take any crap from anyone including me especially when it came to her kids. They were taught at home to be independent and speak their mind, be honest and true at all times. Most folks respect that.