Generally speaking, wider is safer and much more stable. Some wheels centers are factory welded to the rim and some are bolted. If yours are the bolted style (and there are several styles within this group) you can do some adjustment to the width, this can be even more so by swapping wheels to the other side.
Now realize that the rear wheel bearings are designed to support the majority of the weight of the tractor and the force required to work any/all rear attachment implements. Thus your rear bearings should hold up for 10,000’s of hours. So unless you are using your tractor in a commercial environment, we are talking your grandchildren not having to replace the rear bearings, and if using in a commercial environment, you will replace the tractor before replacing those bearings.
As for the front wheels, I would leave them narrow as most front bearings are not designed for as much stress. This is even more important if it has a loader installed.
Now one last comment which offsets the wider rear stance, if you use your tractor in areas where you must go through narrow spaces, then arrange your width to be as wide as possible to fit within the space without going more narrow than the minimum spacing as specified by the manufacture.