Tougher or softer is one thing (same applies in Canada)
Baseball or Soccer (
) ?
Competition vs Participation Awards and Attendance Certificates
The WORK ETHIC has genuinely diminished in the last 20 yrs, and I blame cell phones, you tube etc
Ambition, Drive, Perseverance, seems to be less than in my generation, yet the expectations seem loftier.
When my son was younger, in his mid teens, he was a strong physically fit young man, whereas I am a healthy man in my mid 50s with cerebral palsy since birth, compromising my balance etc. I still could out-work him, because he would never put the damn cell phone down. What would take me 45 min, hauling a loaded wagon around etc, he would have been able to do in 5-6 minutes. I love the kid but he had a gift of making any 5 min task / job last a full hour.
And then he'd complain that it would take too long. I told him to try doing the same job without his cell phone, using BOTH hands to carry items. I shake my head.
Maybe the concrete job that he currently has, will be good for him.
In my case, the tractor is the great equalizer, I can get a lot more done now