Sigarms
Super Member
You know the answer, not certain why you're asking hereShould I own up to my deception?
My experience...
Didn't get married until I was 38. Had my own career, traveled for work and played and had a great "single" life (my wife always busts on me because I told her I did everything I ever wanted to do before I got married LOL).
Married now for 19 years now, still great life.
What I will tell you is in the first 10 years of marriage, I'd always lose my house keys and wallet from time to time, wife was always there with lost items in her handing waiting for me to get them. Last 10 years, she's lets me find them on my own now
We're going to Wilmington NC this afternoon for a wedding. My wife packed and was ready to go last night. Myself? Took me 5 mintues before I typed this and now I'm ready to go
Fact is, IMO from what I've read from your posts, if your family is anything like mine, your wife already knows what you lost and is waiting for you to tell her
Heck, anytime I'm looking for something, once I move to more than two places in the house that's out of my "norm", my wife asks me what I'm looking for
I tell my boys the success in a good marriage is picking a woman better than yourself and hope she puts up with you. Hard to believe, but some woman are equal to or better than men
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