We live and learn. When Sharn Jean and I were first married, as a joke, I bought a scrub brush, stuffed it inside of a paper tube left over from Christmas wrap, wrapped it up and put it under the tree with her name on it. She opened it and was devastated. She began crying, and I had to make amends fast. Told her it was a joke, and retrieved her real gift, I think it was a wrist watch that year, and things smoothed out...eventually. I had a lot to learn about women in those days, and still haven't completed the course.