Here is a practical view of what I think JJ is conveying.
I have a 5hp splitter, 4" cylinder, and a standard Prince 25 GPM log splitter detent valve. Oh, the missing element, an 11gpm pump.
So my control valve is more than double rated on total GPMs available.
I've used this same splitter for maybe 20 years? That's anywhere from 2 to 4 cords per year, for 20 years. Let's just say I am quite familiar with this set-up.
Here is how it works: When I crack the control valve to start the cylinder extension, as soon as the spool is far enough to allow flow, the cylinder moves at what appears to be it's full speed of motion. Maybe it's 80% or 90% of it's speed? But there is little to no speed control. It's like it's ON or OFF.
I have had numerous cases where I wanted to feather or move the cylinder slowly, "inch it" if you will. With the motor at operating RPMs this is nearly impossible. I can move it incrementally with a very fast quick flip of the control lever, in short bursts, to try to approximate where I want the cylinder to extend to. I CANNOT slightly open it [feather] and have it move at, let's say 25% of it's normal speed for example, it doesn't happen.
The ONLY way I can change the speed at which the cylinder moves, is by drastically reducing engine RPMs, which simply slows down ALL cylinder motion. Interestingly enough, even by cutting the pump flow this drastically, there is still NO feather control. It's like it's ON or OFF, just slower.
This would be indicative of what JJ is saying, that is, a much larger rated Control Valve, with it's larger orifices and ports, is going to "OPEN UP" to the smaller flow much more quickly.
No theories, no drawings, no diagrams. Just a practical real world offering of what happens.
Again,
As soon as I crack the valve, I have made an opening large enough to allow a large % of the flow to go to the work port , hence, the characteristic it exhibits is like being either Full ON or OFF in terms of the flow.
Hypothetical: if I replaced my pump with a 16gpm pump, I would suspect I would gain a a measured amount in the way of "control" or ability to "feather". If I upped it again, to a 22GPM pump, I would gain even more control and ability to slow the movement of the cylinder based on the control I have over the total flow.
Perhaps if my control handle on my existing set up where 3 feet long, I would be able to actuate the valve so slightly as to control the speed??
But, that's not allowed, because I started this post as a "practical" exercise.