These tractors are normally not plumbed with power beyond. Normally the 3PH is fed from the output of the FEL valve. It shouldn't work, but it does.
The thing you need to understand is that the FEL is an afterthought on these tractors, and it was cobbled in. The original hydraulic circuit is pump to 3PH to return. I implore you: stop moving hoses around, you're just making yourself crazy. Just get the FEL valve out of the picture. There should be one quick-attach coming out of the pump to the FEL valve, and one coming out of the FEL valve. With the tractor off, disconnect both of them, and then connect the pump directly to the 3PH. Then start the tractor. If the 3PH works now, we can start figuring out what's up with your FEL valve. If it doesn't work, we can work on the 3PH.
Did you check if the 3PH is being bypassed to the rear hydraulic remote?
I noticed in the picture that you had the draft control off and the link to the draft control disconnected. The 3PH absolutely will not work with that link disconnected.