OK, now we're getting somewhere. So the problem is with how the FEL valve is plumbed.
The "normal" Jinma way of plumbing that valve is that the pump connects to the input, and the output of the valve goes to the input of the 3PH. When the valve isn't doing anything the fluid flows straight through the valve, and the 3ph works like the valve isn't there. If you were to lift the 3PH and the loader at the same time you could damage something, but I've had my tractor for ten years and haven't done that.
The "normal" everybody-but-Jinma way of plumbing that valve is to enable the power-beyond port on the valve. Pump goes to the input, and there are two outputs -- "unused" hydraulic fluid (ie at pump pressure) comes out of the power-beyond, and "used" fluid (at low pressure) comes out of the output. The power-beyond goes to the 3ph, and the output goes to the hydraulic tank (under the seat). The reason Jinmas aren't normally plumbed this way is that most don't have an opening on the tank to receive the "used" hydraulic fluid (because the FEL wasn't contemplated in the original design).
The first question is whether your valve has power-beyond enabled. If it does, you'll have an odd number of hoses -- input, output, power beyond, and two for each cylinder controlled. If there is no power-beyond you'll have an even number of hoses. The next question is to identify all of the hoses, and make sure they're going where they should be going. Post back and I'll help with that.
There are 7 hoses coming off the FEL control. The top hose is from the pump. The next 4 are for the front end loader. The two coming off the bottom feed the tank reservoir and the other into the 3 pt hitch control valve...which is not enough pressure to operate the 3 pt piston.