Reads like you are wrapping it up successfully.
It still seems like you got shafted in supporting your Mother, but I respect that.
I still think you should submit the others a bill for support services. Just to lay out how much you spent of your time and money compared to whatever they spent.
It was more like life on hold since 2015 and the knockout of the pandemic lockdowns...
We managed and mom's friend is an angle... she is retired and they would walk everyday sometimes miles and miles and later would sit with mom...
I do think good people have good things happen in times of great need...
If I had to condense it would be not be able to schedule anyone even once to be with mom... and the lockdown really sealed it on top of that...
When grandma had a stroke, mom was on a plane the next day and was grandma's private nurse for 4 months...
In that time mom trained her 8 surviving siblings on how to care for grandma...
There was a calendar and each family had shifts... grandma was never alone.
The calendar meant someone from that branch would be there and if you couldn't, you made calls or traded days and it WORKED...
No questions, no being not available...
Moms inheritance was a family album of us and grandmas Rosary and Cross which she used from that day on.
Maybe close knit farm families are just use to everyone pitching in?