Patti24 -
Where to start...
- Yes, you top off standard lead-acid batteries with distilled water. I'm lazy/cheap and use tap water, but my tap water doesn't have a lot of mineral content. While you're doing it, wipe down the battery top and sides (I use a baking soda paste and an old toothbrush) - the grime that accumulates conducts electricity and will slowly drain the battery and/or cause galvanic corrosion on any metal nearby.
- The hydrogen comes from breaking down water in the electrolyte solution (basically just water and sulfuric acid). Under normal discharge/recharge, little or no hydrogen is generated. Overcharging will electrolyze water causing hydrogen and oxygen to be generated. If it's in an enclosed space and there's a spark...
- Lead/acid (and most other) batteries will self-discharge over time. So if you don't use your tractor for long stretches of time, you either get to recharge it every time you go to start it or get a trickle charger that keeps it 'topped off'. These are so low-current that you're not likely to run down the electrolyte level much. I have one with a solar cell as my tractor isn't near an outlet when parked.
- 'Sealed' lead-acid batteries usually don't need electrolyte maintenance as long as they aren't overcharged. They're designed to deal with small amounts of hydrogen being generated from normal operations.
- Your friend's Steiner isn't working correctly if you have to recharge the battery every time you run it at night. Its alternator should power all the electrical equipment AND charge the battery while the engine is running. Really old equipment wasn't necessarily rigged to run at night so the alternator (or generator?) may be too small for the night lighting; the alternator is mainly there to recharge the battery so you can start it again, not power the light bar, your radio, cell phone, heated seat and whatever else has been added over the years. Easy test is to check the voltage at the battery with the engine at normal RPM - you should have about 13-14 volts and turning on the lights shouldn't cause much more than a momentary dip in voltage.
- Any lights that are on after you shut down are draining the battery. Not by much, but they are draining it. Your car has a bunch of these low-current things - clock, the key-fob receiver, etc. - that will, eventually, drain the battery, which is why you 'always' disconnect the battery if storing the car for months. In normal use - say, weekly driving - it's not an issue. Ditto for tractors.