I would hire somebody who's been around your area for awhile and knows the ground. From your picture it looks like a little cutting from the high side could be used to fill on the low side. Depending on the type of soil you have, compaction can be easily obtained with a dozer, or you might need a compactor.
Just hoping that rain and time will do the job isn't going to work.
Hoping to get it close and filling in the difference with concrete is just throwing money away. A 30 by 40 pad 4 inches thick is going to take 15 yards. Thats without any footings around the edges to support the walls. How deep does your footing have to go? Concrete runs about $65 a yard in East Texas.
I'd guess your minimum expense for just concrete and rebar is going to be around $1,200, and if you want to fill in the slope double that number and be ready go even higher.
A competent crew will cut your pad, slope the surrounding ground for run off in a day. They will have a lazer level, several tractors and when the day is done, your pad will be perfect.
You're also going to need a crew to pour the concrete. Don't try this on your own without experience and lots of good friends.
Pay for these two things, and the rest is fairly simple. Screw up the pad and slab and you have a night mare!
The french drains are a necessary evil. If you don't absolutley have to have one, DONT! From your picture, your land has a nice gentle slope that is perfect for building on.
Good Luck
Eddie