Why are you running it in 2wd? Run it in 4wd and the front wheels will help it steer better.
Are you floating the loader, or just the plow?
I plow in 2WD as I want to save front axle.
The rear wheel weights shouldn't have any effect on the front because they are unsprung weight. That is, they are not supported by the tractor at all. They are supported by the rear tires only. None of their weight is felt by the front end. None. Plus, the tractor pivots fore and aft over the rear axle.
You are right but the wheel weights do add to the total mass of the tractor in the rear. The front being very very light does not have enough mass to allow enough friction to grip and therefore steer, it can not change the momentum gained by the rear.