I recently added a grapple to a compact utility tractor. The tractor has hydraulic couplings in the rear that are easy to connect to since the hydraulic fittings on the tractor are firmly attached to the tractor itself. The hydraulic coupler fittings at the grapple however are extremely difficult to connect because i cannot easily hold the sleeve on the female fitting back to allow the male fitting to be inserted. Great hand strength is required! Is there a tool available to make this connection easier or is there a specific coupling that I should buy that can be firmly attached to the grapple frame? Note: this is NOT an issue of static hydraulic pressure in the lines, the problem is the force required to hold the female coupler sleeve back when joining the couplings. If I just had three hands there would be no problem.