I believe it is a design issue.
If you use loader to its full capability long term, or occasionally overuse, the seals will fail and possibly the bearings. I have replaced 3 in about 10 years of real farming usage (Lifting heavy bales and other heavy loader work).
The first time I replaced them, my Kubota dealer parts department gave me new bearings and seals and commented that they were improved replacement parts due to numerous failures.
I also think running the super UDT fluid in axle components is not advisable. I would run the 80-90W axle oil instead. The UDT2 is very watery and makes its way past leaking seals more easily than 80-90W. Once you get a drip, switch and it will buy you some time. It’s not a difficult job. Did my last few myself.
For once an informative post free of nasty comments, how refreshing.
It is a design issue. Kubota uses ball bearings in the outboards instead of roller bearings so the contact patch is much smaller, consequently, the imposed loading is much higher, been that way for a long, long time. What they should do is redesign the outboards and install angular contact roller bearings. Keep in mind they aren't the only ones using ball bearings.
You really cannot refit with rollers because the space machined in the castings for the races are too narrow.
Like you, I run gear oil in the front but unlike you, I run 85-140 Spirax. UDT and SUDT lacks the viscosity to properly shield the contact patch of the ball bearings so they fail, especially in situations where the loading is extreme (as in moving heavy loads with the FEL like for instance round bales).
The first thing I did when I bought mine new was drain out the factory fill and replace it with 85-140.
Far as the radial seal is concerned, I've never had a weep issue on either one but I attribute that to the gear oil being way more viscous than the thin liquid the SUDT-UDT is.
Until Kubota redesigns the outboards to accept angular contact rollers, the problem will persist.
The larger the tractor is, the more pronounced the issue becomes. Along those lines, I also change my front axle lubricant every year just to insure there is no breakdown in the lubricant.