As I have offered, in previous threads on this subject, in an area of frequent power outages I run my house and guest apartment with a 6,500 Watt, Honda powered generator. The ability to manage load, at the transfer switch, eliminates circuits that are unnecessary and provide power to refrigeration, water pump, lights in kitchens and living areas and in my case, an electric water heater which is energized for only a couple of hours a day.
The most frequent mistake around here is to install excess capacity in a back up generator.
While I understand that needs may vary, electric heat for instance, or need to air condition during outages, most outages, even here are of short duration which makes shedding non-critical loads painless. Every few years we get a long duration outage but in those times it seems like reduced power availability is the least of our problems.
Would I like to have an 1,800 rpm diesel 12 KW genset? Well yes but I have better uses for the $12,000 it would take to own one. Each to his own but I am trying to be the voice that says a 6,500 watt gasoline generator with a dependable engine, is just fine.