If I take my family as an example: My great grandfather fought against the british in the first and second Anglo Boer wars. Most people are not aware of the war crimes committed under Churchills orders where all the rural folk were rounded up and put in concentration camps (yes, prior to the German version of the same). Their homes and crops were burned, the wells spiked, the livestock shot and left to rot while the people in the camps starved to death. Later the captives were shipped off to godforsaken places around india and Sri Lanka where about 2/3 died from malnutrition and tropical diseases. Title to their properties was transferred to collaborators in their absence.
At the end of hostilities the survivors of the camps were repatriated back to ZA and many arrived in Durban. This was the case with my family members who then lived in a slum in an area known as the "bluff" a tall peninsula that formed one side of the harbor. My father (born in 37) was 1 of 4 brothers, he was the oldest, while all of my grandmothers successive husbands were conscripted into the british army and sacrificed on the European battlefields of WW2. All but the last of her husbands died in Europe, the last one (my dads father) never came home. He instead worked the merchant marine and went to Baltimore, where he died from TB at the age of 35. In 49, at the age of 12, my father left school to work for the railway as a messenger boy because the family needed more income than what my grandmother could bring. By virtue of my father working, his brothers got a full high school education and ended up marrying into wealthier families. My father later in life became a high voltage electrician and worked on electric locomotives and the transmission lines that supported them. He was forced out his job at age 55 due to affirmative action, bearing in mind he had 43 years in service already at that point.
Both of my sisters emigrated to New Zealand. My youngest sister recently bought a tiny apartment in Auckland at a cost of about $650k while she is 52yo. She is going to be a slave to that note till the day she dies. My older brother is still in South Africa. He has worked in different positions within a large investment company, starting as an auditer, given that he is an accountant. The company moved him around a lot in later years since the affirmative action people had been after him for years and they finally got rid of him at age 55 a couple years ago and he is likely not going to ever work at a formal job again given the political climate. Today they have crazy inflation, much worse than what we are complaining about in the US, thus the value of his currency is going to be dropping every day.
I dont think I am going to have much leisure time in my future, but I think that so long one has some control over your existance and not standing in line at a soup kitchen, one is doing alright. I have seen so many young people some less than 20 going the welfare route as baby mamas and living on handouts, never having worked a day in their lives. Some of them now in their 30's have 6 kids. We know some families with 14 kids, they were earning more than me during the pandemic without even getting off the sofa...