I was invited to go pheasant hunting by a friend who was driving around after season was over, looking for somewhere to hunt. He simply drove up to the owner's house, and asked. He was told that he could check with the later in the year, and would be given an answer. My friend didn't have the time to donate to help with chores, but he did bring a gift every time he came by. (seems like about seriously nice piece of beef started it). Anyway, the old man passed away one year and the son met him the next year. (son was doing chores at the old man's place which adjoined his). My friend was told that since nobody was staying in the house, go ahead and stay there. (three story farm house). He invited me ONLY after confirming with the son that me being brought up from Florida was ok. I made sure to pick up the tab for dinner for his family every night we could get them into town, in addition to what my friend did. Although I was invited back, I haven't been because spending vacations without my wife isn't fair to her (first one was a business trip paid for by the company)
David from jax