Don't give up, use #1 diesel - the simple solution. It has a cloud point of -40 F. I wouldn't be using my diesel vehicles at temperatures below that unless it was an emergency. It is the wax in diesel that gives it good lubricating qualities, and causes gelling. #1 has less wax (hence a lower cloud point). So many recommend using one of the additives that you see mentioned. I use Opti-Lube XPD which in a recent test had the best lubricating qualities of the additives.
I kind of chuckle at some of the people on the forum from a southern state who say that they use an additive in #2 and have never had a problem. Of course not, cold for them is 20 degrees. If I did that where I live near the Lake Superior coast at -30 F, I can promise you my tractor would have gelled fuel.
Using additives to stop #2 fuel or "winterized fuel" from gelling is risky. By the way, what is the cloud point of winterized fuel? If you don't know and the dealer doesn't know then you are gambling. How much additive do you have to add at -25F verses 0F? The additives say to use X quantity of additive to treat X quantity of fuel and don't even mention the temperaure issue. But given there are different fuels and different temperatures possible, you really have no idea where you stand cloud point wise after you have treated your fuel.
Like I said, do yourself a favor and use a fuel with known gelling features (#1 diesel), rather than playing a guessing game with additives. Sounds like you have spent, and are going to spend a lot of time and money getting your tractor running again. In the future spend your time and money finding #1 diesel and paying a little more a gallon for it.
The best way to deal with a diesel vehicle that is all gelled up is to take inside a warm place, let the fuel ungell and get as much of that fuel out and replace it with #1 until warm weather is here.