I'm going to be doing the same with new water, power and gas services to my house in a common trench. If you run this line in copper, I would suggest that you use the coated copper. It is still flexible and the protective coating is good. The poly pipe is commonly used for underground gas nationwide. Flare connections, when properly done, are excellent, but you have to have a good flaring tool, deburr the pipe and make a good flare. As a rep in the gas, P/H, HVAC business it is the biggest installation error I see.
Whether you do this yourself, and it isn't rocket science, or have a contractor do it I would suggest that you install CO detectors and if you have a basement , a combustible gas detector. I'm in the gas business, very comfortable with it, and would not have a home without them. Cheap insurance.
Given the issues you've all ready had, and the proximity of the other piping, I'd have a properly equipped contractor or the gas company come in and knock this thing out.