Jim,
Don't feel alone on the frustration of your garden. We are having problems up here too in the relatively cooler environment. We have raised a low acid tomato called Super Fantastic VFN for over 30 years
and are having serious problems with it this year too.
Super Fantastic-Tomato
Since it is a hybrid we can't save the seeds; we have to trust the labels at the greenhouse and our experience of what the plant looks like when young,
but who knows.. in today's world you get what you get. The garden still looks decent from afar but up close you can see the leaf wilt on the tomatoes that started out yellow and then turned black after the heavy rain we had the other night.
I personally like soaker hoses in the garden but the wife has been doing the watering this year and she
likes to use a nozzle that really gets the entire plant soaked. She also doesn't like hay mulch since it makes a lot of new weeds and hides the snakes.
I think the problem on the leaves may be over watering but I have heard rumors of a tiny aphid around here doing the damage. It is time to can juice and whole tomatoes so maybe we can get it done before the vines crap out completely.
The cucumber picture is of the one the deer ate the top off about a month ago. It has revived and is producing. The peppers and squash survive about any weather.
The chatter on this thread prompted us to buy 6 month's more good quality hamburg from a neighbors butchering shop. $ 3.30 a pound but a lower quality is $3.89 in the groceries now. Sure glad we don't like prime t-bone steak anymore.
When I was a kid Kroger started selling 3 pound of hamburg for a dollar, but since we didn't have a freezer my mom thought it wouldn't keep so had to pay $0.39 per pound. How times have changed.
Ron