I think you may be getting some bad information here. You should NOT make the changes you suggested. Your generator is configured as a separately derived system and it is not field reconfigurable. Therefore, the only safe way to connect your generator to your premises wiring system is through a transfer switch that switches the neutral. Three pole transfer switches are available. If you modify your generator, you are violating NEC articles 90.7, 110.2, and 110.3.
Portable generators that can be configured as a separately derived system or a non-separately derived system are also available. In these cases, a system bonding jumber is installed for a separately derived system or removed for a non-separately derived system. If the system bonding jumper is removed, the neutral from the premises wiring system must be solidly connected to the generator. A plug and receptacle at the generator is not a solid connection.
One of the problems with making the modifications you are suggesting is that the fault current path during an undgrounded (hot) to equipment grounding conductor (ground) fault between the premises wiring system and generator is not directly back to the source, as it should be. Instead, the fault current would need to flow through the premises wiring system main bonding jumper and back to the generator through the neutral. Also, if you were to ever use the generator as described with the plug in the first picture, the same is true. The fault current would be flowing through the plug. In both of these cases if you ever had a fault the circuit breaker may never trip.