Camera took better pictures in the dark than I thought it would so here is a first post.
I installed a Brand Hydraulics pressure compensating flow control valve, FC51-1/2. It will handle 3000 psi and up to 16 gpm flow. They have a decent web site with specs, dimensions, etc... at
BRAND Hydraulics suppliers of hydraulic valves and pumps. I purchased from Northern Tool. This valve has 1/2 inch female NPT connections. They make them with SAE ports as well. Other companies make these valves too; this is what I found to be available to me.
I made a mounting plate out of some 1/4" steel plate. The other items I used were: 2 short lengths of 3/8 inch hose with 8FJX ends. (#8FemaleJIC), 1 8MJ-8FJX-8MJ female run tee, and 3 8MJ-8MP90 fittings (#8male JIC to 1/2 male NPT 90 fittings).
That is all it took.
The flow control valve has two holes for mounting. I bolted it to the plate I cut and mounted the plate using two bolts that were already in place for the factory mounting of the loader control valve. I just had to use longer bolts. I actually mounted the flow control valve rotated 90 degrees clockwise for a better fit in my application. I cut a 'notch' in the plate for one of the lines to be able to go straight back. I was a little space constricted because of a toolbox I had mounted in the area before this. I will refer to top, bottom, etc.. as it is mounted (pictured).
The loader control valve has three ports: P, for pressure I presume, T for tank and PB for power beyond. I didn't touch the P port. The flow control valve has IN, CF (controlled flow) and EX (excess flow).
The Tank port exits straight out the bottom of the loader control valve. I disconnected that hose and inserted the tee mentioned above between the hose and the valve port with the additional connection pointing straight down. Then using one of the new hoses I connected this tee to the EX (excess flow) port of the flow control valve using one of the 90 male pipe to JIC adapters. As mounted the EX port comes out the bottom of the flow control valve. This allows any excess flow, the fluid I don't want to use, to return to the tank the same way excess flow from the loader control valve does.
The power beyond flow exits the loader control valve on the top outside edge on my tractor. It exits into a 90 degree fitting that is connected to the hose that routes fluid to the 3pt and rear remotes. This is the flow I want to control (reduce). I disconnected the hose from the 90 fitting on the loader valve leaving the fitting in place. This hose is then connected to the CF (controlled flow) port of the flow control valve using one of the 90 male pipe to JIC adapters. As mounted the CF port is on top of the flow control valve.
The second piece of hose is then used to connect the PB port on the loader valve to the IN port of the flow control valve. The third 90 male pipe to JIC adapter is used on the IN port.
Now: the loader valve and loader work as they always did. Power beyond (the loader valve) fluid goes from the PB port to the IN port of the flow control valve. From the flow control valve the fluid is either sent from the CF port to the 3pt and rear remotes or 'diverted' to the EX port which returns the fluid to the tank through the tee installed on the loader valve T (tank) line. Reducing the amount of fluid at the CF port (what we want to do) just increases the amount going through the EX port back to the tank. The amount of fluid at the CF port is controlled by the lever on the flow control valve, and in my case is adjustable from 0-16 gpm. The valve 'compensates' for differing pressure and keeps the flow at the dialed in setting. My tractor only has a hydraulic output of 9.2gpm, so on the valves 0-10 scale I have to get down below about 6 before anything happens. I seem to run at about 3.5 on the scale for most things right now, slower, but not too slow. It is adjustable from the seat with no tools at any time. Slower doesn't really fix the problem, but it masks it really well. Slower, less momentum, less jerkiness. Slower doesn't bother me nearly as much as the jerkiness. I can return to factory at any time by simply adjusting the valve to a 'controlled flow' equal to or greater than the 9.2gpm my pump puts out.
I hope this description helps make sense of the attached pictures. I will work on some videos of hitch in action next time in use. The hitch is empty right now.
From Seat

From Beside RR wheel

From direct right side

Straight Down

Straight Back along right side of engine
