My torque curve peaks at 1600 with PTO rated at 2600. I stay above the peak, even though the curve is pretty flat on out, so that when I hit a tough spot the torque increases rather than decreases which leads to shut down in an overloaded condition.
On how much load when working hard (plowing) I use 100-200 rpm drop (plow up to plow down) as my load max. I set the rpms to 2600 and tweak the gears to get the desired drop. If I don't need the power, I too cut her back till things get quieter. The cab helps as do ear plugs, and my being deaf, but still things can get loud. The JD with the "Sound Guard" cab was pretty quiet but they lined the whole thing with foam rubber padding with holes punched in the surface to absorb the noise. On the current tractor no such sound deadening techniques are used.
My 2c,
Mark